Our boy is the busiest bee around! On the go from morning to night, except during his 2hr nap. He doesnt even sit down to eat, preferring to eat on the go!
Comparing him to his cousin, who is very careful and happy to sit in front of the tv, our little whirlwind is leaps and bounds ahead of L physically and mentally! However, he doesnt have a “danger sensor” at all! He will quite happily run headlong into any body of water, climb out his cot, up onto a table etc…he gives his Mommy grey hairs, that is for sure!!
The upside of this, is that he is a brilliant sleeper…except for this past weekend. We went away with friends, to their holiday home on a dam. The house has been made kid friendly, as her children first started going there when they were babies. The garden is fenced off, as it is in front of the dam, so we thought all would be fine. We were wrong! The first evening there, he was running around the garden and he spotted a mongoose. Now, he loves our dogs and missed them terribly while we were away and, in his little boy mind, the mongoose was a dog! So, he took off at a run, after the mongoose shouting “Goga, Gogaaaaa” (his name for dogs)! The mongoose escaped through the fence but that didn’t deter him one little bit, he just climbed over the fence and carried on running! We have never moved so fast in our lives as he raced down the pier as fast as his little legs would carry him! Neither of my friends little girls had ever tried climbing the fence….guess little boys are different (although I doubt L would climb over either!).
Anyway, back to the sleeping… at the house my friend had her 2 girls there, now 8 and 6 and 2 other friends bought their kids, a girl of 6 and a boy of 11. Well, A was in his element! He loves older boys especially and so Matt was his hero! Therefore 5am became his new wake up time and no naps were taken in the day…he suffered from complete FOMO (Fear of missing out). He did sleep for 3 hours yesterday afternoon to catch up though!
All through the weekend, I was in prime position to witness many sibling arguments, between the 2 sets of siblings and, it occurred to me that, that is another bonus to having 1 child…no fighting! So, long may these weekends away continue, so A can get his fill of having ‘siblings’ and Mommy can remember, once again, why 1 child is the way to go… without even taking into account all the nasty IF treatments and losses along the way!